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C. S. Lewis wrote, after his wife died, that no one had told him grief felt so like fear. Many people are surprised by how anxious loss makes them: worry about money, about health, about being alone, about the future in general.
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Fear tends to live in tomorrow. One of the oldest and most reliable ways to soften it is to come back to today — this hour, this breath, the feeling of your feet on the floor. A slow breath out, longer than the breath in, signals to the body that it is safe to settle.
The quotes below gather that steadying wisdom from scripture, philosophy and psychology.
If your chest feels tight right now, the breathing lantern on our home page will guide you through a few slow breaths. Persistent anxiety is very treatable — a doctor can help.
Yea, though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil: for thou art with me.
— Psalm 23:4 (KJV)Pleasure and pain, heat and cold — they come and they go. They do not last. Bear them patiently.
— After the Bhagavad Gita, 2.14Anything that's human is mentionable, and anything that is mentionable can be more manageable.
— Fred RogersNever let the future disturb you. You will meet it, if you have to, with the same weapons of reason which today arm you against the present.
— Marcus Aurelius, MeditationsYou do not have to see the whole road. Only the next small step.
— The Quiet LightNo one ever told me that grief felt so like fear.
— C. S. Lewis, A Grief ObservedFeelings come and go like clouds in a windy sky. Conscious breathing is my anchor.
— Thich Nhat HanhMuddy water, left still, slowly becomes clear.
— After Lao Tzu, Tao Te Ching 15Let nothing disturb you, let nothing frighten you; all things are passing.
— St. Teresa of ÁvilaWhere death is, I am not; where I am, death is not.
— After EpicurusGod is our refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble.
— Psalm 46:1 (KJV)You have a right to your actions, but never to their outcomes. Do your part, and let the rest go.
— After the Bhagavad Gita, 2.47Look for the helpers. You will always find people who are helping.
— Fred RogersConfine yourself to the present.
— Marcus Aurelius, MeditationsFear speaks loudly about tomorrow. Today, you only need to handle today.
— The Quiet LightFaith is the bird that feels the light and sings when the dawn is still dark.
— Rabindranath TagoreThe present moment is the only place where life can be lived. Come back to it, breath by breath.
— After Thich Nhat HanhThis too shall pass.
— Persian adageYesterday is gone. Tomorrow has not yet come. We have only today. Let us begin.
— Attributed to Mother TeresaHe who fears he shall suffer, already suffers what he fears.
— Michel de MontaigneFear thou not; for I am with thee: be not dismayed; for I am thy God: I will strengthen thee.
— Isaiah 41:10 (KJV)One whose mind is untroubled in sorrow, who is free from fear and anger, is called a person of steady wisdom.
— After the Bhagavad Gita, 2.56We do not "get over" a great loss. We learn, slowly, to live alongside it.
— After Elisabeth Kübler-Ross & David KesslerWe suffer more often in imagination than in reality.
— Seneca, LettersYour feet are on the ground. Your breath is still here. For this moment, you are safe.
— The Quiet LightYou gain strength, courage and confidence by every experience in which you really stop to look fear in the face.
— Eleanor RooseveltPeace I leave with you, my peace I give unto you. Let not your heart be troubled, neither let it be afraid.
— John 14:27 (KJV)On this path no effort is ever lost, and even a little practice protects one from great fear.
— After the Bhagavad Gita, 2.40A slow breath out, longer than the breath in, tells the body it is safe to soften.
— After research on slow breathingWhile we are postponing, life speeds by.
— Seneca, LettersWorry is a story about the future. You are allowed to put the book down for a while.
— The Quiet LightWith the past, I have nothing to do; nor with the future. I live now.
— Ralph Waldo EmersonAnd the peace of God, which passeth all understanding, shall keep your hearts and minds.
— Philippians 4:7 (KJV)Like a lamp in a windless place that does not flicker — so is a mind that has found stillness.
— After the Bhagavad Gita, 6.19Thoughts are not facts. You can notice a painful thought without obeying it.
— After cognitive therapyMen are disturbed not by things, but by the opinions about things.
— Epictetus, EnchiridionYou have found your way through hard days before. That strength has not left you.
— The Quiet LightDo not worry about tomorrow; each day has enough trouble of its own.
— After Matthew 6:34The mind is restless and hard to hold, but it can be steadied by patient practice and letting go.
— After the Bhagavad Gita, 6.35The greatest weapon against stress is our ability to choose one thought over another.
— Attributed to William JamesIt is not death or pain that is to be feared, but the fear of pain or death.
— After EpictetusBe strong and of a good courage; be not afraid, neither be thou dismayed.
— Joshua 1:9 (KJV)Set down every worry and take refuge in the divine. Do not grieve.
— After the Bhagavad Gita, 18.66Every feeling, even anger, rises, peaks and passes like a wave, usually far sooner than we fear.
— After emotion researchHe will not fail thee, neither forsake thee: fear not, neither be dismayed.
— Deuteronomy 31:8 (KJV)Lead me from the unreal to the real; lead me from darkness to light; lead me from death to immortality.
— Brihadaranyaka Upanishad 1.3.28You can't stop the waves, but you can learn to surf.
— Jon Kabat-ZinnWhen thou passest through the waters, I will be with thee; and through the rivers, they shall not overflow thee.
— Isaiah 43:2 (KJV)I will never leave thee, nor forsake thee.
— Hebrews 13:5 (KJV)In the multitude of my thoughts within me thy comforts delight my soul.
— Psalm 94:19 (KJV)For God hath not given us the spirit of fear; but of power, and of love, and of a sound mind.
— 2 Timothy 1:7 (KJV)Be still, and know that I am God.
— Psalm 46:10 (KJV)For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, saith the Lord, thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you an expected end.
— Jeremiah 29:11 (KJV)